Julia, Khalil, his 12-year-old brother Mahmoud — they have to stand near it every day.
Everything changed in my life and my kids' lives.
Julia Shqair
Early on Oct. 1, Eric Woody entered Sabatino’s at about 1:09 a.m. and demanded money from Shqair. When Shqair tried to negotiate with him, Woody shot Shqair in the chest with a handgun. He then exited the store without taking anything, Syracuse police said.
Woody has since been found, arrested and formally charged with seven counts, including murder in the first degree, according to court documents.
After the robbery, Julia woke Khalil to tell him the news, he said. As the family traveled between the hospital and the store, the chances of his father’s survival diminished with every hour. At about 10 a.m., it was 50-50, Khalil said. By 11:30, his chances had dropped to 10 percent. Not much later, while Khalil was still at the store, he received the call.
Then, he threw the phone.
“I was mad,” he said. “I just kept throwing stuff over everywhere.”
The aftermath has been strange, Khalil said. When they think of their father, it’s like he’s still there. His mother wouldn’t allow him to go back to work for a month, Khalil said, even though he wanted to return before that.
Since then, Khalil has logged much more time at the shop than ever before, he said. When he’s not at school, he’s there, helping his mother and doing just about anything that needs to be done.
Working, school, working, school. I don't really go anywhere anymore.
Khalil Shqair
Khalil’s busy schedule often strips him of time with friends. For a week in the middle of February, he had no school, but he worked just about every day anyway. His mother said he has stepped up in the store and at home: helping his siblings with homework and going food shopping.
“He’s always giving,” said his uncle Jalal, “never takes.”